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New teacher, new school, new therapist: how to protect your child’s progress into the new school year

TheDalzaTeam — Fri, 23 Oct 2026 10:40:28 +0000

By Robby Coelho, founder of Dalza and parent of a child with additional needs

Every year around this time, parents start wondering about next year. Who will the new teacher be? Will the new school read the reports? Will the new therapist know what's already been tried? Underneath it all sits a quieter worry, that the progress made this year might not make it into the next one.

If your child has additional needs, you'll know how much work went into this year. There were the meetings, the adjustments, and the trial and error until something finally clicked, along with the slow building of trust between your child and the people around them. It makes sense to feel protective of all of that as the year draws to a close. I've felt it myself every December, and I've learned that the end of the year is the riskiest time of all for children like ours. That's exactly why I built a solution for it, which I'll share with you at the end of this article.

What a transition looks like

The end of the year can bring a lot of change at once. For some children it's a move into a new grade with a new teacher. For others it's a bigger step, like Grade R into Grade 1 or primary into high school, or a move to a new school, sometimes in a new city. Some will start the year with a new support team, a different therapist or a different programme altogether. Often it's more than one of these at the same time.

Each of these changes means the people who know your child well are handing over to people who are meeting them for the first time. Some of what this year's team knows sits in reports and assessments that anyone can read. Much more of it lives in their heads. Over a year, a teacher picks up so many pieces of understanding: that your child settles better if they can arrive a few minutes early, that instructions land when they're given one step at a time, that going quiet usually means they're overwhelmed, that a particular friend helps at break time. A therapist learns which approaches worked, which didn't, and why. Very little of this is written down anywhere, and it's exactly what a new person needs most.

When a transition happens without that understanding, the new teacher or therapist has to learn it all again from scratch, usually through trial and error, and your child is the one who lives through the errors.

What the research says about school transitions and additional needs

The research on school transitions for children with additional needs is consistent. Moves between schools and phases are a particularly vulnerable time, and children with additional needs often need a more personalised approach than the general transition support schools offer everyone. A 2026 study of the move from primary to high school found that parents link good transitions to strong communication between home and school, and to information being shared between the old school and the new one. When that sharing doesn't happen, things that worked are dropped while the new team waits to see how things go, and problems can escalate quickly.

Many children also seem to cope at first and only start to struggle months later, once the novelty wears off and the extra support around the move is withdrawn. A smooth first week is no guarantee that a transition has gone well.

The load families carry

Research consistently shows that parents of children with additional needs experience higher parenting stress than other parents. A large part of that stress is coordination: keeping the teacher, the therapists, the doctor and the family on the same page, remembering who said what, and making sure everyone is working towards the same goals.

Transitions add to that load. Every new teacher, school or therapist usually means another meeting where you start at the beginning, explaining the diagnosis, the history, what's been tried and what works. You dig out old reports, forward emails and try to remember the details that made the difference. Many parents have told their child's story so many times they could recite it in their sleep, and each time there's a worry that something important was left out, or that it won't be read at all. It's emotionally, mentally and administratively draining, and it lands at the busiest time of year, when everyone is already stretched.

Then there's the uncertainty. Until the new year starts, you don't know whether the new teacher will understand your child, whether the agreed support will be in place, or whether you'll be back at square one by February. For many parents, that waiting is one of the hardest parts.

How a poor transition affects your child

Children feel it too. While the new team catches up, your child is the one living with the gap. Strategies that worked go missing. Adults misread what your child is trying to communicate, and behaviour that comes from anxiety or overwhelm can be mistaken for something else. Your child has to show all over again what they need, often at the moment they feel least settled. For a child who already finds change hard, those first weeks can set back a lot of progress, and it can take a long time to rebuild their confidence and trust.

None of this is anyone's fault. Teachers and therapists want to do right by your child, and they can only work with what they've been told.

What a good handover looks like

A good handover is the best protection against all of this. It makes the move smoother for your child, for you, and for the new teacher, school or therapist, who gets to start the year already understanding your child. A good handover captures:

Your child's current goals and how close they are to reaching them, so nobody starts over on work that's half done.
The strategies that work, as specifically as possible, along with the ones that have been tried and didn't, so time isn't lost repeating them.
What helps and what overwhelms: triggers, early warning signs, and what helps your child calm down.
Anything that has changed this year, such as a new diagnosis, a change in medication or a change at home.
The most recent reports and assessments, from school and from any therapists.
Who is involved in your child's support and how to reach them, so the new team knows who to ask.
Observations from this year's teacher and therapist in their own words. A short note on what they've learned about your child is often worth more than a formal report.

Timing matters as much as content. The best time to start is now, while this year's team still remembers the detail and before schools close for the holidays. Once this year's teacher has moved on to a new class, most of what they know goes with them. The new team needs this information before the first day of school or therapy, so support carries on from day one instead of being rebuilt after something goes wrong. Keep a full copy that belongs to you, too. Schools and practices keep their own files, but you're the one who goes with your child from year to year.

Where Dalza fits

This is what we built Dalza for, because we understand how pivotal transitions are. My own family has been through many of them: from one school year to the next, between schools, teachers and therapists, and even a move across continents. I know what it's like to sit across from someone new and start the story again from the beginning.

Dalza gives your child a shared profile that you, as the parent, control. Throughout the year, everyone on your child's team adds to it, including teachers, therapists and family members. Goals, strategies, observations, reports and progress build up in one place as they happen, so the handover is ready long before the year ends and nobody has to remember to write it all up in December.

When someone new joins your child's team, you invite them in and they're onboarded straight away with the full picture. They can see what the team learned, what works and what to watch for, before they've even met your child. You don't have to re-explain and retell the whole story again and again, and your child doesn't have to wait for the adults to catch up.

You decide who joins your child's team, and the record stays with your child wherever they go next.

What you can do before the year ends

There are still a few weeks of term left, and that's enough time to make a real difference.

Create your child's Dalza profile and add the reports and goals you already have.
Invite this year's teacher and therapist to the profile, and ask them to add a short note on what they've learned about your child while it's still fresh.
When you know who next year's teacher or therapist will be, invite them in so they know who your child is before they even meet in person.

Your first month on Dalza is free, and after that it's R95 a month.

Start your child's profile here.

The end of the year will always bring change. With the right handover, the work your child, their team and you have put in this year can come with them into the next one, and the new year can start right where this one left off.

By Robby Coelho and the Dalza team

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Frequently asked questions

When should I start preparing for my child's school transition?

As early as possible, and ideally before the current school year ends. This year's teacher and therapist know your child best right now, and once they move on to new children that detail fades quickly. Ask them for their observations while they still remember them.

What information should I give my child's new teacher?

Your child's current goals and progress, the strategies that work and those that didn't, triggers and calming strategies, any changes this year, recent reports and assessments, contact details for the support team, and short notes from this year's teacher and therapist in their own words.

What if my child seems fine in the first week of the new school year?

A good first week is encouraging, but research shows many children with additional needs only start to struggle weeks or months later, once the novelty wears off and extra support is withdrawn. Keep checking in with the new teacher through the first term.

How do I stop having to repeat my child's story to every new teacher or therapist?

Keep one shared record of your child's goals, strategies, reports and observations that you control and can share with each new person who joins your child's team. Dalza was built for exactly this.

References

Hamilton, L.G., Lewis, K. & Vincent, J. (2026). Improving school transitions for children with special educational needs and disabilities (STEPS final project report). York St John University. https://doi.org/10.25421/yorksj.32316672

Neal, S., Rice, F., Ng-Knight, T., Riglin, L. & Frederickson, N. (2016). Exploring the longitudinal association between interventions to support the transition to secondary school and child anxiety. Journal of Adolescence, 50. https://discovery.ucl.ac.uk/id/eprint/1493677/

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ADHD Treatments for 5 Year Olds: Gentle Approaches for the Early Years

TheDalzaTeam — Tue, 07 Oct 2025 08:34:22 +0000

The goal of ADHD treatments for 5 year olds is not to “fix” your child, but to help them thrive by providing strategies and creating environments in ways that are age-appropriate, compassionate, and effective. When your child is just five years old, the idea of “treatment” for ADHD can feel overwhelming. Parents often wonder — is it too early? Should we wait and see? Or should we act now? The truth is, every child is different, and ADHD at this age may show up differently than it does in older children.

What ADHD Looks Like at Age Five

At this stage, signs of ADHD often include:

Difficulty sitting still during group activities
Trouble following instructions, even when they want to
Emotional outbursts that seem bigger than the situation
Forgetting routines (shoes, lunch, school bag)
High levels of energy that make structured activities harder

It’s important to remember that some of these behaviours can also be typical of young children. That’s why professional assessment and guidance are so important before making decisions about treatment.

Treatment Options for Young Children

1. Behavioural Therapy
Behaviour therapy is usually the first recommended approach for young children. It focuses on helping parents and teachers create supportive environments through:

Positive reinforcement (praising desired behaviours)
Clear, consistent rules and routines
Logical consequences that help children learn from mistakes
Reward systems tailored to small goals

2. Parent Training Programs
Many parents benefit from structured training programs that provide strategies for managing ADHD-related behaviours at home. These programs can:

Reduce stress for parents
Increase consistency across caregivers
Give families confidence in their parenting approaches

3. Classroom Supports
Teachers play a huge role in treatment for 5 year olds. Helpful classroom strategies include:

Breaking tasks into short steps
Providing movement breaks
Using visuals, songs, or routines to support memory
Offering calm, structured spaces for regrouping

4. Occupational Therapy
Some children benefit from occupational therapy to address sensory needs or fine motor skills. This can support better self-regulation and classroom participation.

5. Medication
Medication is not usually the first step for 5 year olds. In some situations, however, a doctor may recommend it if a child’s traits are making it especially hard for them to participate in daily routines, learning or play. [but in some cases, doctors may recommend it if symptoms are very severe and interfering with daily life.] Any decision about medication should be made thoughtfully in partnership with a qualified pediatrician or child psychiatrist.

Why Early Support Matters

The early years are often described as the “golden window” for intervention. Helping children build routines, coping strategies, and confidence at this age lays the groundwork for future success. Early treatment can:

Improve relationships with peers and teachers
Reduce frustration at home and school
Prevent negative cycles of behaviour and punishment
Build resilience and independence

How Dalza Helps Parents of Young Children

One of the hardest parts of early intervention is staying organized and communicating with everyone involved. Dalza makes this easier by:

Storing assessments, notes, and observations in one place
Tracking behaviour patterns over time
Sharing updates with teachers, therapists, and doctors
Keeping both parents aligned with real-time feedback

It’s a way to reduce stress and make sure your child’s team is working together, not in silos.

Final Thoughts on ADHD Treatments for 5 Year Olds

ADHD treatments for 5 year olds should always be gentle, child-centered, and adaptable. No single approach works for every child — and that’s okay. The goal is to help your child feel understood, supported, and capable of thriving in their own way.

At Dalza, we believe early support is one of the most powerful gifts you can give your child. And we’re here to help you every step of the way.

Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and not a substitute for medical or therapeutic advice. Please consult qualified professionals for individualized recommendations.

By the Dalza Team

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Executive Functioning in Children: How to Support Brain Skills That Shape Daily Life

TheDalzaTeam — Thu, 18 Sep 2025 07:10:39 +0000

Executive functioning is one of the biggest hidden factors in how children succeed — not just in school, but in daily life. These are the brain’s management skills: planning, staying focused, managing emotions, shifting attention, and getting things done. When they’re underdeveloped or disrupted, everything from brushing teeth to finishing homework can become a battle.
Many neurodivergent children, including those with ADHD, autism, and learning differences, struggle with executive functioning. But with the right support, these skills can be developed over time.
This guide breaks down what executive functioning is, how it shows up in real life, and how you can support your child in building these essential abilities, one small step at a time.

What Is Executive Functioning?

Executive functioning is a set of mental processes that help us manage ourselves and our resources to achieve a goal. Think of it as the brain’s “air traffic control” system.

There are three core areas:

Working Memory – holding and using information in your mind.
Cognitive Flexibility – shifting thinking or adapting to changes.
Inhibitory Control – managing impulses and staying focused.

Together, these allow kids to plan, organize, regulate emotions, start tasks, and finish them.

Common Signs of Executive Function Challenges

Children with executive function difficulties may:

Forget instructions easily
Struggle to start tasks without prompting
Have frequent emotional outbursts when routines shift
Lose track of belongings or homework
Take longer than peers to complete tasks
Seem “smart but scattered”

These behaviors are often misunderstood as laziness or defiance. In reality, they’re signs that the child’s brain is still developing the systems needed for self-management.

Strategies That Help

There’s no magic fix, but consistent support can help your child build stronger executive skills over time. Below are strategies you can use at home, in school, and in therapy.

1. Break Tasks into Steps
Big tasks can feel overwhelming. Help your child break things down.

Use checklists with small, clear steps (e.g. “Put on socks, then shoes”)
Add visuals or timers for extra clarity
Praise each step completed, not just the end result

2. Create Predictable Routines
Structure helps reduce the load on executive systems.

Use consistent morning, homework, and bedtime routines
Visual schedules or color-coded calendars work well
Start with just one or two routine anchors before expanding

3. Externalize Memory
If it’s not in front of them, it may not exist.

Use sticky notes, alarms, or picture cues
Keep important items in designated “homes” (e.g. keys in a basket)
Label drawers or containers to reduce decision fatigue

4. Build Emotional Regulation Skills
Executive skills include managing frustration, disappointment, or boredom.

Name emotions and model calm responses
Use “body tools” (like breathing, squeezing a stress ball, movement breaks)
Offer breaks before escalation, not after

5. Support, Don’t Rescue
It’s tempting to step in and finish things for them, but this prevents learning.

Offer just enough support to get started
Use questions (“What’s the first thing you need?”) instead of commands
Celebrate effort and improvement, not just outcomes

Dalza’s Role in Supporting Executive Function

Dalza was built for moments like this, when a child’s progress depends on many small actions working together.
With our platform, families and professionals can:

Set and track micro-goals for routines and behavior
Share strategies that work between home and school
Use behavior and mood logs to track patterns
Keep everyone updated with one secure communication thread

Executive functioning isn’t developed in isolation. It grows through consistent, collaborative effort. That’s why Dalza helps your whole support team stay aligned.

Final Thoughts

Executive function skills are not fixed traits. They’re skills, and like all skills, they can be nurtured over time.
If your child struggles with starting tasks, managing emotions, or staying organized, it doesn’t mean they’re lazy or unmotivated. It means they need a little scaffolding. With the right tools, structure, and support, they can — and will — get there.
You’re already doing the hard work of noticing, supporting, and advocating. Dalza is here to walk that journey with you.

Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical or therapeutic advice. For a full assessment or treatment plan, consult with appropriate healthcare and educational professionals.

By the Dalza Team

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Early Childhood Development: Understanding the Foundations of Growth

TheDalzaTeam — Wed, 10 Sep 2025 07:08:35 +0000

Whether your child is autistic and/or has ADHD, experiences speech delays, or is simply developing in their own, unique way , understanding early childhood developmental stages can help you provide the right support, at the right time.Early childhood is one of the most critical periods of human development. The brain is growing rapidly, habits are forming, and the way a child experiences the world during these years can shape their emotional, cognitive, and social growth for years to come. At Dalza, we support families whose children have a wide range of developmental needs, some diagnosed, some still emerging.

This article is your guide to what “development” really means in the early years and how you can identify when to get extra help.

What Does “Early Childhood Development” Include?

Development doesn’t just mean physical growth. It refers to a broad set of milestones and abilities, usually grouped into five main areas:

1. Cognitive Development

Thinking, problem-solving, learning, and memory. Examples: recognizing shapes, stacking blocks, completing a simple puzzle.

2. Language and Communication

Understanding and using words, gestures, and tone. Examples: naming objects, following instructions, using full sentences.

3. Social and Emotional Development

Understanding feelings, forming relationships, and managing emotions. Examples: taking turns, showing empathy, coping with disappointment.

4. Physical Development

Fine and gross motor skills. Examples: running, jumping, drawing, using scissors.

5. Adaptive/Self-Help Skills

Everyday skills for independence. Examples: dressing, feeding, toileting.

Children grow at their own pace, and variation is normal. But persistent delays or challenges in one or more areas may signal the need for further support.

Why Early Intervention Matters

The earlier a child receives support, the better their chances of catching up or learning alternative strategies that work for them.

Early intervention can:

Reduce frustration (for the child and the family)
Improve school readiness
Support emotional regulation and social interaction
Prevent secondary issues like anxiety or self-esteem difficulties

Most importantly, early support can build your child’s confidence and ensure they feel understood.

Signs Your Child May Benefit from Extra Support

Some signs to look out for:

Not speaking as expected for their age
Difficulty with eye contact or social play
Trouble following directions
Frequent emotional outbursts that feel intense or hard to understand
Difficulty using hands for drawing or manipulating small objects
Lack of interest in other children or group activities

You don’t need a diagnosis to seek support. If something doesn’t feel right, trust your instincts and speak to a pediatrician, speech therapist, or educational psychologist.

Supporting Development at Home

There’s a lot parents can do every day to support development, often through simple play and routines.

Talk often: Narrate your actions and describe the world around you
Read together: Story time supports language, attention, and emotional bonding
Use visuals: Picture charts and simple routines help children process expectations
Play together: Open-ended play encourages creativity and problem-solving
Build independence: Let your child try age-appropriate tasks like brushing teeth or tidying toys

Remember, connection is more important than perfection. Every positive interaction builds your child’s confidence and trust in themselves.

How Dalza Helps Track and Support Development

Dalza is a platform designed to support families, educators, and therapists through all stages of a child’s growth. For early childhood, Dalza allows you to:

Record developmental milestones
Track behavioral patterns and triggers
Share updates with teachers or therapists
Store assessment reports or referrals
Reflect on progress and adjust strategies together with your team

It’s a way to bring everyone onto the same page — so no one has to keep repeating themselves or worry about something falling through the cracks.

Final Thoughts

Early childhood developmental needs aren’t always obvious. Sometimes, delays are subtle. Other times, they’re very clear — but still overwhelming to navigate. Wherever you find yourself, know this: you’re not failing your child by asking questions or seeking help. You’re advocating. You’re showing up.

At Dalza, we believe in meeting each child where they are, and helping them grow from there. There’s no one path. But with the right tools, care, and collaboration, there’s always a way forward.

Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, psychological, or developmental advice. Please consult appropriate professionals for personalized guidance.

By the Dalza Team

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